I grew up bullied, emotionally unseen, and without a safe space to figure out who I was. By the time I came out, I had spent years hiding behind masks just to survive — and I carried those masks into every relationship I tried to build.

I know what it feels like to date from a broken place. To want love desperately and simultaneously push it away. To wonder if something is fundamentally wrong with you.

Nothing was wrong with me. And nothing is wrong with you.

I spent years doing the real work — healing, learning, building — and eventually I found what I was looking for. That journey became The Mirror Method. Everything I coach comes from lived experience, not a textbook.